Miscellaneous

Sex, or as it’s more commonly called, ‘Just’ sex. And guess what? it’s the ‘just’ that screws us up. It’s the ‘just’ that makes us think it doesn’t matter. It’s the ‘just’ that makes us devalue sex and make emotions the end all and be all, but what if I told you…

The ‘Narcissus’ is the name for the narcissistic ego that is running the show. It shows itself through entitlement, victimhood and a lack of empathy. The ‘Unwanted’ is the name for the ego that is running the show for the target of the ‘Narcissus.’ The ‘Unwanted’…

The narcissist. It’s him. It’s her. He ruined my life. She destroyed my happiness, It’s him, him, him. It’s her, her, her. Where are you in all of this? Who is in control of your life? Who is responsible for how you feel about things? Who chooses what you think,…

I like shoes. That’s hardly a profound thought, I think a lot of people like shoes. My first favorite pair of shoes belonged to my grandmother. She had gold shoes. One of my earliest memories with her was at her apartment in Northville, Michigan. I sat on the floor…

‘Enough’, it’s such a little word and yet it holds so much meaning. ‘I’ve eaten enough.’ ‘I’ve had enough.’ ‘I’ve done enough.’ ‘I haven’t done enough.’ But rarely do we thing we are enough. And after you leave the narcissist it’s the last thing you feel. You…

Contempt; it’s the gift that keeps on giving in the narcissistic world. Contempt is the curl of the lip. Contempt is the look of disdain. Contempt is the minimizing of your concerns and the downplaying of your emotions. Contempt is the eggshells you walk on to keep…

Part 6: Jason and Caitlyn break up Part 6: The narcissistic relationship between Caitlyn and Jason has ended after a year together. This is the sixth and final part of a fictional series detailing the parallel evolution of the narcissistic relationship. You can find…

Part 5: Jason begins his devaluation of Caitlyn Jason and Caitlyn have been together for six months. This is the fifth part of a six part fictional series detailing the parallel evolution of the narcissistic relationship. You can find part 1 here, part 2 here ,…

Part 4: Jason and Caitlyn meet… This is the fourth part of a six part fictional series detailing the parallel evolution of the narcissistic relationship. You can find part 1 here, part 2 here and part 3 here.Caitlyn met Jason on a Tuesday. She’d been asked by her…

Part 3: Caitlyn This is part 3 of a 6 part fictional series detailing the parallel evolution of the narcissistic relationship. If you missed part 1, click here. If you missed part 2, click here.Caitlyn began college the way most overprotected, unpopular high schools…