Bending narcissism for
happier, healthier relationships.

Narcissism is one of the hidden root causes for unhealthy relationships. Leave your email below and we’ll send you actionable insights and tips how to understand, manage and bend narcissism.

Vishen
Lakhiani

Founder, Mindvalley

Every time you give someone the power to build you up with praise, you’re also unknowingly giving that person the power to destroy you with criticism. Therefore, accept praise and criticism as nothing more that someone else’s expressions of their models of reality. They have nothing to do with who you really are.

‘The Code of the Extraordinary Mind’

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be?

‘Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of ‘A Course in Miracles’

Marianne
Williamson

Author, Speaker, Activist

Vishen Lakhiani
Founder, Mindvalley

Every time you give someone the power to build you up with praise, you’re also unknowingly giving that person the power to destroy you with criticism. Therefore, accept praise and criticism as nothing more that someone else’s expressions of their models of reality. They have nothing to do with who you really are.

‘The Code of the Extraordinary Mind’

Marianne Williamson
Author, Speaker, Activist

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be?

‘Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of ‘A Course in Miracles’

From understanding to bending narcissism.

Catherine Stuckey, M.A.
Founder

My story is like all of yours. I met a man, fell in love, ignored all of the red flags until…You know what day I’m talking about. You found photos or text messages that weren’t from you and googled ‘serial cheating’, ‘silent treatment’, or ‘pathological lying’ then screamed ‘F#@&K’ when the word narcissism popped up.

Your brain went into crazy mode and Google thought you were trying to break it…yep, me too…until I discovered the only way to beat the narcissist was to become a BIGGER narcissist. Problem solved! So, I spent the last 3 years interviewing and dating narcissists and discovered what made them tick.

This website is a result of my research. My dream for all of us who have lived in the narcissistic relationship vortex is to stop it from ever happening again. Let’s transform ourselves and together, we can make narcissism a myth that our children laugh about instead of something they have to endure.

Discover the 5 common types of narcissists, how to spot them and how to stop them.

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Welcome to Narcissism Blog 

Why it’s never ‘just’ sex…

Why it’s never ‘just’ sex…

Sex, or as it’s more commonly called, ‘Just’ sex. And guess what? it’s the ‘just’ that screws us up. It’s the ‘just’ that makes us think it doesn’t matter. It’s the ‘just’ that makes us devalue sex and make emotions the end all and be all, but what if I told you…

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Coaching

Recover from the narcissistic love dance once and for all!

Life is incredibly short and if you’ve spent significant time with a narcissist you may feel like it’s time that you’ve wasted, but together we can shine the light on the lessons you’ve learned and turn your trauma into triumph!

Narcissism is not only very common – it’s often misunderstood. Check out our glossary and learn what’s really behind narcissism – and get some tips how to deal with it.

Narcissism Glossary

Narcissism is not only very common – it’s often misunderstood. Check out our glossary and learn what’s really behind narcissism – and get some tips how to deal with it.

Disordered Eating

A common side effect of a narcissistic pathological relationship is disordered eating. Because narcissists, sociopaths and anti-social behavior disordered…

Revenge Body

The revenge body goes along with disordered eating. Often times when the narcissist leaves us suddenly and has a new girl waiting in the wings, there is a need…

Mindfulness

The official definition is to be intensely aware of what you’re sensing and feeling in the moment, without interpretation or judgement. With regards to the ending…

Visualization

This is the act of closing your eyes and visualizing what you’d like for the future, you can do this with all aspects of your life…

The Predator’s Gaze

The relentless gaze that seems to preclude the psychopath’s destruction of his victim or target…

Manufactured Intensity

When a predator uses love bombing and constant attention to create an intense relationship as quickly as possible. This…

Contradictory Information

A pathological partner will say one thing and completely contradict what he said in the previous sentence with just as much…

Super Traits

A combination of high levels of Agreeableness and Conscientiousness which make a woman a target for the narcissist. A person…

Discover the 5 common types of narcissists, how to spot them and how to stop them.

Leave your email below and we'll send our PDF right to your inbox.
It's a quick 5-minute read, giving you all the tools to spot narcissists right away.